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After a abortion

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ljdxxx · 08/07/2022 17:46

So I never thought I would have to write anything like this but I had a abortion this week I took my tablets on Tuesday and it was over In a couple of hours, I genuinely feel like I made a mistake but I wouldn't of been able to have another baby. Just wondering what people was like after it, I couldn't stop being sick from lastnight I've rang the helpline they said to keep an eye on it and if I get cramp and loads of pain to ring back.

Has anyone else gone threw this?

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Irishlucy · 08/07/2022 21:01

I had my abortion last night. It was my second . Don't feel regret you did what u had to do for what's best for you. Get yourself well and don't overthink .x

ljdxxx · 08/07/2022 21:15

@Irishlucy Thankyou I'm trying not to actually think about it, it was a hard choice I had a emergency C-section 7 months ago and it left with with all aniexty and worries about things so mentally wasn't prepared to go through it again.
Just feel abit unwell but I think it's all my hormones going back done, just didn't know if it was normal.

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Irishlucy · 08/07/2022 23:05

@ljdxxx I was like this the first-time.. this time I decided I would be well .. at 3 am last night I lay in bed with pains I got up this morning put a fresh pad on and went to work. I could feel sad and not go to work or get up and get on with it. Mind over matter Hun. Think good things. X

Happybunny134 · 09/07/2022 10:38

I’m currently in the process, I took the final medication last night, I have no regrets about choosing not to have another child, I’m just angry that I got myself into this situation

ljdxxx · 09/07/2022 11:20

@Happybunny134 Hope it's gone okay for you so far, I'm starting to feel myself today I don't feel to poorly, I'm the same it was a mistake and I caught, I was about to start the pill on my next period and it never arrived that's how I knew I was pregnant, but it was the best decision for us. However I'll never do it again.

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Happybunny134 · 09/07/2022 11:27

my husband and I have used the pull out method for 16 years, all 3 of our children were planned so this completely shocked me, I had a feeling I might be pregnant when I wasn’t getting any pms symptoms. On the day my period was due I got a positive pregnancy test and called bpas and got pills within 2 days, I’m glad the process was quick that I don’t have time to think about any what ifs etc. I know I don’t want another child and that was that. I hope you are well today x

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 09/07/2022 11:28

Mine was a vacuum abortion, that was cramping and some light bleeding but after 24 hours or so, I was feeling okay. Never regretted my choice for one second. Accidents happen. You made the right choice for yourself. I'm glad you're starting to feel better today.

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