Trigger: abortion

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I just want kind advice please.

I think I need to get an abortion-i think I am 4 weeks and 1 day today. My period is always on the dot but was 1 day late, which is why I tested. I already have a 5 year old who keeps asking for a sibling.

I don't have a permenant job and I have just got a 1 year fixed term contract in an industry/company that I really want to be in. They have already said that I should be made permenant after 6 months. I am with the dad (also my elder child's dad) but he is a full time student and next year is his 3rd year.

I'm just so confused and I don't know what to do.

Please can you advice me/tell me anecdotes?

Advice or anecdotes about what?

Write a list of pros and cons. No one can make this decision for you. Financially, it sounds like it might be a stretch, but equally you may be able to make things work if this is what you really want.

I have had an abortion and a baby. The only advice I think I can give us to go with your gut feeling, you can always overcome financial stuff but can you imagine a baby in your life? And how would you feel if it were here?
Big hugs xxxx

Echoing pp who said to go with your guy in this. Also OP ask @MNHQ to move this into pregnancy choices. You may not get the greatest advice on AIBU…

Thank you. How do I do this?