I have a 7 month old and 2 teenagers. We’ve obviously slipped up on the contraception and I’ve just found out I’m about 5 weeks pregnant. My biggest concern is my health. I have Crohn’s disease and other issues, and got quite unwell after having my last baby. My partner has health issues too. So it has been really hard at times.
I just don’t know what to do. Carry on and have a 16 month age gap, or have a termination. My heart says continue, but my head says it’s a really bad idea. I keep flip flopping between the options and I’m so confused. Money and space wise, it will be hard but doable. Health wise, I’m worried it will break me. However, I think I will be heartbroken if I terminate.
I don’t know what I want from this! Maybe just some experiences or words of wisdom