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Medical Abortion

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Twoforme · 17/08/2021 22:09

Hi, I just wanted to share my experience as I found the chat on here so helpful and supportive when I was going through it all.

I had a medical abortion at 6+5. I took the first pill at 3pm on the Monday, I wasn't sick or nauseous, I felt completely fine, at about 3pm the next day I started to bleed. I took the next 4 pills at 18.30pm, lay down in bed and waited for the painful cramps and awful bleeding that I had read about. Nothing happened. At 21.30pm I took the two extra pills as I hadn't had any cramps or any additional bleeding. Nothing happened. I slept through the night and woke up at 7am to two tiny drops of blood on the pad. I was so stressed. I waited til midday and called the Marie Stopes helpline, they told me that I had to wait 48 hours as sometimes some bodies take longer for the pills to take effect. I was so stressed, I read every single conversation on here about failed medical abortions. The days passed, we got to Thursday morning and the bleeding was still the same like a very light, last day of period bleeding. At this point I was so stressed and called them up again, I explained my symptoms, they suggested it could be an ectopic pregnancy, this sent me into overdrive!! I was told someone would call me within 48 hours as I was considered an emergency. No call. By Saturday morning I was freaking out, I called them again and an appointment was made for Monday, one full week after taking the first pills.
I am delighted to say the scan showed nothing, they did a PT and it was negative. They told me that sometimes, some people, just have it really lightly!!!
So for all the ladies out there who might be like me, I'm sharing my story!

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bifjufd · 18/08/2021 09:07

Thankyou for posting this @Twoforme my appointment is booked for tomorrow and it's really helpful reading everyone's stories. How are you this morning?

78Lj · 03/09/2021 19:45

Hi I have taken my first tablet yesterday at 2 afternoon. Was feeling fine until today where I have been sick all day. I was going to insert 4 tablets today but been so I’ll decided to wait until tomorrow morning. How can you ease sickness as not keeping anything down x

Adviseplease30 · 17/07/2022 19:02

@Twoforme did you have any clots? How heavy was the blood? It’s been 24 hours for me since I took the third set of tablets and all I’ve had at 05:00 this morning was blood when I wiped and a few small clots. I’m so scared thinking it’s ectopic, I’m 5 weeks x

Twoforme · 17/07/2022 19:19

I didn’t have any clots and the bleeding was so so light, like hardly worth a sanitary towel. It sounds like you’re having a really similar experience to me. Don’t be afraid to give them a call, they are so supportive and peace of mind is everything. Xxx

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Adviseplease30 · 17/07/2022 19:27

@Twoforme I really hope so, I’ve been sitting here waiting for loads of blood and cramps and nothings coming, only the blood/clots this morning and every time I wipe a little blood 😢 I called Marie Stopes and they said I have to call back after 48 hours which is tomorrow evening. I’ve read all sorts which has sent my anxiety into overdrive 😢 I’m meant to be going on holiday on 25th July with my son and I’m scared I’ve got an ectopic pregnancy and won’t be able to go. X

Twoforme · 17/07/2022 19:39

Awww no, hopefully not! I was also super convinced of the same. But the lady said to me when it’s so early it’s quite common for there to be minimal bleeding and you’re even earlier than I was so focus on that. Easier said than done I know!! Huge hugs! Xxxx

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Adviseplease30 · 17/07/2022 19:54

@Twoforme I don’t think I can wait until tomorrow night, I’m going to lose my mind 😔 I’m having to pretend to my son I’m ok and everything’s fine but I just want to try. I called them to ask for a scan but they can’t do anything yet x

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