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Found out I’m pregnant

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Itsjustme3 · 01/01/2021 20:01

Hi
I was due on my period today and have shown positive pregnancy tests since Tuesday.

I have two children (5&6) from my ex husband who I’m on good terms with.

This baby is with an ex, we took the morning after pill but this obviously didn’t work. It was a one off with the ex, a silly moment that should never have happened. We split up end of September and he’s younger than me.

He wants me to have an abortion. Problem is we work together so see each other regularly and I’m not sure I can go through an abortion.

Any advice?

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Ksi91 · 01/01/2021 20:19

Sending hugs OP

Never ever let anyone tell you to have a abortion
It isn't a spur of the moment decision & your ex shouldn't be treating it as such

It's your body , your choice

Xxxx

Itsjustme3 · 01/01/2021 21:23

Thank you.

Just so unsure right now. We have decided to give it few days to sink in and speak again.

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Nia18 · 01/01/2021 21:41

A positive at the moment is it sounds like you have some time to make your decision, but it has to be YOUR decision, not influenced by other people.

LouMumsnet · 02/01/2021 10:26

Hello, @Itsjustme3 - we're just bobbing on here to say that we've moved your thread over to our Pregnancy Choices topic and we hope you get some useful advice here.

Best of luck and take care. Flowers

Itsjustme3 · 02/01/2021 14:23

Thank you - apologies for posting on the wrong area.

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Itsjustme3 · 04/01/2021 18:19

I’m having a miscarriage 😢

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Nia18 · 05/01/2021 11:31

Oh OP, I'm so sorry to hear that. Big hugs. Hope you're ok x

Itsjustme3 · 05/01/2021 12:30

Thank you. Guess it just wasn’t meant to be.

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Ksi91 · 05/01/2021 16:01

@Itsjustme3 so sorry to hear this. Thanks
xxxxx

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