Undecided - how did you come to a decision??

[kells1987]

I need some help! I’m 35, in a relationship and discovered 2 weeks ago that I’m pregnant. I estimate 6-7 weeks. Haven’t told anyone, not even OH as I don’t know how I feel about it and whether or not want this baby. How did you any of you in this situation come to a decision? I’m just lost, this wasn’t planned BTW - contraception failure...I have 2 children already and about to start a new job. I’m happy and settled in my life but got to figure out how I feel. OH is starting to suspect as I have been avoiding a little just to get my head round. Any advice is appreciated!!

I have no useful advice I'm afraid but bumping your thread in the hope that someone else does.

Have your feelings about the pregnancy changed at all in the time since you found out or has it just been shock and confusion throughout? On a practical note, have you got space at home for another if you choose to go ahead with the pregnancy? Can you afford another easily or would it make things more difficult financially?

I have two, not planning on any more, and am now trying to get my career going again so I can really sympathise with your predicament. I think I know what I'd do if it were me but it's hard to say without actually experiencing it.