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Abortion

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oliviabedward · 26/04/2019 18:22

Can anyone give me abit of advice as I'm finding it hard to come to a decision. I've just found out I'm pregnant about 5/6weeks so early on and I have no idea what the right thing to do is. I already have a son nearly 2 years old so I already have responsibilities towards him. I'm considering having an abortion as practically wise I thing it would be the better choice, however emotionally I don't know whether it's something I can go through with. The father wants no part of it and has told me to get an abortion as he doesn't want a child and he would resent me if I was to keep it. I'm only 21 and don't want to end having another child only to do all my own. Has anyone got any advice or had an abortion and could tell me how they felt during it. Thanks.

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3babyxx · 26/04/2019 18:57

Hi .. I had an abortion in January a surgical awake one .. before I had it done I was so scared and didt know what to do I literally didt sleep for weeks ..
But I have a 6 year old , 2 year old and 8 month old! I live on my own so it's hard enough as it is. But for me it was the best decision I'm glad I done it now because I wouldt have coped with a fourth child

I thought I would feel worse then what I did
And I didt feel no pain whilst it was getting done. Minimal bleeding to ! I had the coil put straight in after thougu so could've made my bleeding / better or worse

Only you know if it's the right decision
Good luck what ever you decide xx

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