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Having surgical abortion alone, is it allowed?

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Gooseylucyy · 12/12/2018 15:31

I'm having a surgical abortion tomorrow at 10 and a half weeks pregnant and was planning on going alone however I've been reading about other people's experiences and have seen a lot of people saying they don't allow you to leave alone. Is this the case? Dp can't get the time off of work and there's no one else I can tell so I'm panicking

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BackAwayFatty · 12/12/2018 15:37

Hi, I was booked in for a surgical after a miscarriage & the rule was someone had to pick you up & stay with you for 24hrs due to general anaesthetic. If no one is available, they will keep you overnight.

FilledSoda · 12/12/2018 15:46

Can your DP really not get the time off?
That just seems so very sad. Would be not even cite ' family emergency ' or some such ?
You could really use his support and I assume he had some input in the situation.
Sorry I'm not much help , I'm just a bit shocked that you have a dp but have no support.

Gooseylucyy · 12/12/2018 15:49

@filledsoda I do wish he could come I'm dreading going alone but his work wouldn't let him have the time off and basically stated that he'd be out of the running for a promotion he's worked really hard for if he took it off. I was planning on getting a taxi home but I'm worried now, I would just call and ask but stupidly left my phone in the car

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FilledSoda · 12/12/2018 16:07

Would it be possible to have the surgery in the last time spot ?
Your DP might be able to get you at 5pm say and then he would be leaving early rather than taking the whole day.

BackAwayFatty · 12/12/2018 16:30

I do think you have to be picked up, as in someone comes in to the ward and collects you. Could your DP come after work? Better late than never Smile

Marleyschains · 12/12/2018 16:33

You aren't supposed to drive after it is all. I did though and was fine.

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