I just can't do it

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Fell pregnant with a guy I've known 6 weeks. Although I've no questions about having his baby. It seems he's now shown me his true colours.

He won't leave me alone, I'm only 4 weeks yet he's going on and on at me about letting him be there for all the scans, for the birth and to ensure I let him see his baby.

Christ sake!! I'm 4 weeks gone.

I've told him I will contact him when the baby comes but he just won't stop, he's relentless, I have to give him an answer to everything now.

In desperation, I've told him I'm going to have a termination because I felt trapped and maybe it was for the best but I just can't do it. I want this baby, I just don't want him harassing me.

I've blocked him but he just calls on withheld, I've threatened with the police but let's see how long that will last.

Is this a serious post? You've threatened him with the police for wanting to be involved in the pregnancy?!

The baby is not just YOUR baby it is also HIS baby!

If you have decided to continue with the pregnancy he has every right to take an interest and want to attend scans and once the baby is born he has every right to want regular access. If he is as interested as you say I'm sure he will also want his family involved and for them to see the baby on a regular basis. This baby will have two sides to his/her family not just yours!

If you have decided to continue with the pregnancy he has every right to take an interest and want to attend scans

He can want to attend scans all he likes, but he has no right to do so.

He's abusive and causing me stress.

He has absolutely no right to attend scans, have photos of scans or anything to do with the pregnancy until the baby physically arrives.

Same as I've no right to claim money until the baby is physically here.

Since posting this, I have decided to have a termination. The father is far too emotionally unstable and isn't safe to be around the baby.