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Is this a miscarriage? [Content warning: graphic photo]

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Emilyjaynee666 · 01/06/2023 19:26

5-6 weeks pregnant?

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Letsgotitans · 01/06/2023 19:55

Has this only just happened? Or did you have this and it has stopped? If it's just this, try and get a scan as soon as you get to 7 weeks to see what's what. I'm really sorry if it's a miscarriage, I know what it feels like. My miscarriage the other month started with just a bit then full period. However, with my son I had quite a heavy bleed at 12 weeks and he arrived here fine!

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Emilyjaynee666 · 01/06/2023 23:20

I went for a scan yesterday and the scan look fine, we saw a gestational & yolk sac. Then today I passed these..

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Letsgotitans · 02/06/2023 05:01

OK if I was you, if there isn't an obvious miscarriage (as in bleeding enough to be classed as a period) I'd try and hang on until 8 weeks, have another scan and then hopefully you'll be able to see a heart beat. Unfortunately that's the only way to know for certain. I'm the meantime, I know it'll be all you can think about but try and do things to take your mind off of it. Wishing you all the best!

CR7 · 02/06/2023 12:29

@Emilyjaynee666 can you book a private scan in a couple of days time for some peace of mind? There are loads of places that offer them for £100 or less x

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Emilyjaynee666 · 02/06/2023 12:30

I can't , I think it was a misscarrige I've just never experienced a miscarriage like this as the clot looks really white rather than red

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Onepotatotwopotatothreepotatofour · 02/06/2023 12:36

i can’t really see well in the photograph, but when I had a miscarriage the pregnancy was a white grey and it was quite obvious compared to the red bleeding and red clots I’d been having. I’m so sorry if that is what you’ve experienced xx

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Emilyjaynee666 · 02/06/2023 12:38

I had light bleeding when I wiped but wasn't coming out on a pad then just them 2 clots that I posted.

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ChloeN · 02/06/2023 13:18

@Emilyjaynee666 I was in hospital for my miscarriage as it was missed so needed the tablets to start it off, the nurse did say the tissue may be pink/purple, and feel hard rather than squishy like a blood clot xx

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Emilyjaynee666 · 02/06/2023 13:19

The clots I had seems soft and squishy

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Throughalookingglass · 02/06/2023 13:20

Mine looked like the photos you posted but much bigger.
Can you go to the EPU and ask for a scan?

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Emilyjaynee666 · 02/06/2023 13:21

They won't scan me again for 2 weeks as I've had a scan on 31st which showed the gestational & yolk sac

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CR7 · 02/06/2023 13:51

Emilyjaynee666 · 02/06/2023 13:21

They won't scan me again for 2 weeks as I've had a scan on 31st which showed the gestational & yolk sac

Can you go for a private scan? To put your mind at rest? x

Throughalookingglass · 02/06/2023 22:05

CR7 · 02/06/2023 13:51

Can you go for a private scan? To put your mind at rest? x

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If you tell them you are concerned you have a miscarriage, they will scan you surely? I went for a few 'extra' scans when I was worried during my pregnancy. They told me they'd rather I'd come in than sit anxiously at home because that wouldn't be good for either me or the baby.

I also went to my GP who used a doppler to listen for the heartbeat. She let me listen so I was reassured. I paid for the GP privately. Would that be an option?

Alloveragain3 · 02/06/2023 22:24

This is what mine looked like at this stage of gestation, yes.

Hopefully it's not the case for you OP.

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Emilyjaynee666 · 02/06/2023 22:26

Did you bleed a lot after loosing the clots?

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scrantonelectriccity · 02/06/2023 22:28

I'd book a private scan if EPU won't see you

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Emilyjaynee666 · 02/06/2023 22:46

I have a scan tomorrow but with the comments saying it looks like a miscarriage I think I've come to the fact that I've miscarriaged ☹️

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Throughalookingglass · 02/06/2023 23:23

Emilyjaynee666 · 02/06/2023 22:46

I have a scan tomorrow but with the comments saying it looks like a miscarriage I think I've come to the fact that I've miscarriaged ☹️

I hope it will be ok OP. Do you have someone to go with you tomorrow? Please don't go alone.

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Emilyjaynee666 · 02/06/2023 23:26

I don't I will be attending alone, the strange thing is everything's stopped like no bleeding or anything my pad is completely clean.
I just know it will be a miscarriage. I feel like I've already processed it. I had 2 last year but they never looked or was anything like what's happened over the last 2 days.

The sad reality is the fact if this is a miscarriage, it means I've had 4 back to back losses. 2 last year then a stillbirth with my son and then a miscarriage ☹️

Life really isn't fair. I just don't ever think I'll be an earthside mum and it sucks so bad

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Throughalookingglass · 02/06/2023 23:30

I'm so sorry OP. Its so so hard to lose one and three in such a short period is horrendous. Sending positive thoughts your way for tomorrow.

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Emilyjaynee666 · 02/06/2023 23:31

It really is , thankyou so much appreciate your help & advice🤞🏽

Praying for a miracle 🤞🏽🤞🏽

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Siarabang · 02/06/2023 23:34

So sorry for your losses. Can't imagine how tough that must be. Wishing you all the best with the scan.

Malificent1 · 02/06/2023 23:36

So sorry for your losses. I’m keeping everything crossed for your scan tomorrow.

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Emilyjaynee666 · 02/06/2023 23:36

It has been super tough, the worst years of my life.
20 year old having a stillbirth & miscarriages broke me as a person.

I'm just with trying to hope for the best with the scan tomorrow but I know deep down it's going to be bad news

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SixKeys · 02/06/2023 23:39

I had similar when I had a miscarriage but also had similar when I was pregnant with my son. It's such a worrying time OP. Will be thinking of you tomorrow.