uncomfortable sex

[nattiecake]

helloo

im 26 weeks and having trouble having sex. i'm very oversensitive and quite swollen, and really its too sore to even try. i have tried, probably only about twice in the last 6 weeks, and i feel terrible for my poor hubby! i had terrible morning sickness to start with, then one thing wrong after the other, so we haven't had a normal sex life pretty much all the time i've been pregnant.

plus, now im being very selfish and not doing other things for him. i dont mean to be mean, but i just really dont want to...

what do you think i should do???

Lots of lubricant? Try Astroglide. Also, try doing lots that does not involve pentration- I'm sure there's lots of ways you can both be kept happy .

Try and talk to him about it first so he knows your not being mean and withholding him having his frills he should at least try to understand, I mean its not like you just have a headache or something.

I am in the same boat, I'm 21 weeks and the other night DP abd I had sex but it hurt so much that I am going to talk to him about it, reasure him I am not not wanting to have sex with him but its just to much and hopefully he will just have to deal with no sex and just have his joys in 1 or 2 other ways