bumperlicious i know its a simplisitic answer, but yes DH is going to need to do everything for you, not just in moving house. the more you rest, the less pain you will be in. i know it hugely increases the frustration, depression etc, and it feels like your spiraling into a useless pile of pregnant mess (thats how i felt).
I was lucky that my DH likes doing things for me, hes just that kind of person and always has been. I had about 4 months of not being able to sleep due to the pain of the SPD (from about 4 1/2 months pregnant till birth).
if you are struggling with your emotions, tell your midwife you are struggling, they might be able to suggest someone you can talk to to help vent your feelings to so they arent so overwhelming. either that or goto your GP and ask for an urgent referral to a counsellor or similar. I really do sympathise, i was lucky in that my depression was noticable to me as I have suffered badly with it before, so i got refered to the local services early on and saw someone every 2 weeks to offload (i could have done with it more frequently, but i need a specific type of counsellor and that lady only comes to my little town every 2 weeks!).
Ive had a fantastic weekend, my hips are really easing up, im aching like hell as ive done too much this weekend as per usual, but it was fathers day! I walked into town and back again on friday, did a birthday party with eldest DD on saturday (and playing in the garden, but that was low impact, i just watched!), and yesterday as played in the garden most of the day, and walked into town in the evening to have a meal out with DHs dad and stepmum who were down to visit DD3.
I stopped breasfeeding on friday as i wasnt producing anything at all, so my hormones have been settling down really nicely. not sure if its coincidental, but my SPD is a lot better since stopping breastfeeding. My meal out last night was lovely, but i had a few glasses of wine, and when running through the bar (dont ask...) of another place on the way home i tripped and fell(!) but luckily i fell on my 'good' side and its not too bad this morning, aches like hell, but thats what i get for running, let alone falling over! DHs worried that ive messed my hip up again, but i know i dont feel too bad considering. Thinking about reducing my painkillers soon, ive got an appt with my GP this afternoon to discuss that and to ask for some xrays and investigations into my back problems (which ive had since i was a teenager, but the uncertainty of whats wrong and the inability to get an epidural into me mean i had to have a general for my csection).
im rambling....DD3 is hiccuping beside me, oh and i know its just showing off, but DD3 slept through the night last night, fromm 11pm till 6.45am!!!
There is light at the end of the tunnel girls, it takes a few weeks, but SPD has eased up hugely for me, and since i was wheelchair bound for the last couple months of the pregnancy, i think it a huge achievement!