bump at 12+1 question?????/

[rachxx]

well im 12+1 today, and my stomach is nearly flat, i had what i thought was a bump forming, and then it disappeared again, so was prob bloating. i wake up with a really flat stomach, and go to sleep with a lil bump. anyone else have this? i worry all the time that i have had a missed miscarriage. also not feeling as sick, and bb's not as sore, though still very tired/got bad skin. I am still in my size 6 jeans too???

My MIL said she was in normal clothes till 18 weeks with her first pregnancy. I've popped already (11+1) but then my tummy muscles are shot because of a back problem.

When is your scan?

ive had three scans already, last one at 9+2. the next one is at 13+2, so over a week to wait

I was also in normal clothes til 20 weeks- looked like pms at 12 weeks.
No sign this time round either although still early.

It is really variable

I didn't have a bump at all until about 18 weeks, didn't really look pregnant until 5 months. Look like I've swallowed a beach ball now (7 months).

I also had myself all worked up about a miscarriage before both the 12 and 20 week scans - I didn't start to relax until I could feel the baby moving from around 21 weeks.

12 weeks is a normal time for the morning sickness to go, and my breast were not tender throughout the whole pregnancy. Try not to worry about it.

I had a friend who did not even look pregnant when she was 7 months. She had a tiny bump. Her baby was completely healthy.

Everyone is different - try not to let it upset you. I was in normal clothes until 17 weeks and now at 32 can still wear one pair of normal jeans (albeit zip undone). I was out friday night with a bunch of women who couldn't believe how far along I am.

I didn't start getting my bump till 14 weeks ish. I did have a bloated look as 12 weeks in the evenings, but it was just bloated.
I am now neally 19 weeks and still in normal jeans and tops sometimes have to undo jean button but not always.

With my 1st, I think the bump came later still. If you are concerned contact your midwife though.

at 34 weeks pregnant with my 4th, i moved house. the removasl man asked if i was sure i had 6 weeks left, or was 6 weeks gone.

Forgot to say my boobies aren't sore, and weren't with DD either, and sadly they didn't get any larger for me either and it looks like they will be the same size this time round to.

thanks for all your replies ladies. very reassuring

I cant speak to my midwife til 2mo, and typically i started worrying about this on fri evening, at the start of the bank holiday!!!

I just thought may be the flat stomach was a sign of a missed miscarriage or something.

my boobies have gone up a cup size, and with my flat stomach, im very proud of them at the moment, hahahaha, x