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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Early pg bleed - should sex be avoided?

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kipperthedog · 19/05/2010 17:53

Hi

Am about 5 weeks pg & have had a small amount of bleeding for the past couple of days, pretty negligable really but is it best that sex is avoided?

Didnt have this with my first 2!

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japhrimel · 19/05/2010 18:12

Have you had an EPAU referral to get checked out?

The standard advice is that sex should be avoided in the 1st trimester if you've had bleeding I think (it's usually worded as sex is okay unless you have had bleeding, etc, etc)

oldmum42 · 19/05/2010 18:30

probably avoid sex. EPAC would probably see you to check all is ok - usually you can self-refer, ask hospital switchboard for the early pregnancy unit - or see your GP for a referal.

The bleeding may (or may not) indicate a problem with your pregnancy, don't panic, many have bleeding and go on to have a normal pregnancy, but in my experience, it is often the first warning that things may not be going so well - even at this stage, 5 weeks, a scan will give an indication of what's happening, and you would usually be given a follow up scan a couple of weeks later to check things have progressed.

Sorry don't mean to scare you, and I hope everything is OK with you, but best to get checked.

kipperthedog · 19/05/2010 18:42

thanks, well i phoned the midwife on mon who said that i should just see how it goes & if i managed to get an early scan (another midwife had sent off for one as i am not 100% sure of dates) then i would be lucky as there are very few appointments, very helpful

not sure if there is an epu here (cornwall) but will check it out.

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oldmum42 · 20/05/2010 13:05

Amazing how things vary - here (scotland, smallish city), EPAC is self refer and they scan everyone - though you might have to wait a couple of hours - hope you manage to get an appointment, and some answers soon.

chocolatechomper · 20/05/2010 13:30

Hi, I had 2 bleeds in the 1st trimester (at 7 weeks and 9 weeks) with my DD and was advised not to have sex until 16 weeks. Hope this helps.

kipperthedog · 21/05/2010 09:37

thanks chocolatechomper (like the name btw & oldmum42. I phoned the mw again yesterday & was told I'd have to wait for my scan in 2 weeks & there was nothing to be done in the meantime. They don't scan til 6 weeks apparently. Sooo it's a waiting game for me....

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chocolatechomper · 21/05/2010 14:41

I hope all is well

oldmum42 · 22/05/2010 16:32

Best wishes.

kipperthedog · 22/05/2010 20:16

Thanks very much ladies

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