Pregnant with No. 4 and very worried

[Mornington]

I found out last week that I'm pregnant with my fourth child. It's unplanned. Although I was quite keen to have another one, my husband was not. At the risk of sounding incredibly stupid, I'm not sure whose fault this pregnancy is but I'm feeling very upset at my husband's lack of enthusiasm.

I understand it's a surprise but I was never dishonest about contraception, we were just irresponsible. Having said that, while terribly apprehensive, I am also excited about the baby and very hurt at my husband's lack lustre approach.

I know we both sound very stupid - so please don't tell me what I already know! Has anyone had a similar experience?

Well I won't bore you with the details but I was days away from aborting my 4th, DH isn't working and looked throughly depressed. I was mid college course and the other 3 DC's had just transferred to private school so the timing was awful but it was equally now or never.
DH was in tears, I thought I was going to have a break down all in all dreadful time.
DS is due in 9 weeks time and guess who is the most excited, DH is counting the days.