21 weeks with dc2 and thought this was supposed to be the time when i was raring to have sex but opposite is true. Just feel knackered and would rather go to bed with a book. It's a real effort and can't figure out why. Physically finding it hard to get aroused and mentally, don't feel that I fancy dh that much at the moment (although he is lovely). I wondered if others had the same thing as in 2nd trimester.We're definitely less touchy now than we were first time round, guess that's inevitable with a toddler. DH is up for it but doesn't make the first moves, think he's nervous to be rebuffed. I think we're doing ok on once a week but he wants more (in advance of the hiatus to come!).
Any advice?