I desperately want a 4th child, but am considerably overweight (about 4/5 stone). I don't think I could cope with being pregnant starting from this weight.
I originally thought I might try to shift a couple of stone before ttc. But then it occurred to me, if I ate sensibly during pregnancy, I might emerge from the other side slimmer than I am now. Does that sound bizarre?
I know you're not supposed to diet while pregnant but in the past I have eaten like a horse! Surely there must be some happy, healthy medium?
Or maybe I should just quit moaning and shift the weight first?