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The DH cheating dreams are back...

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TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 27/12/2009 08:48

When pregnant with DS I had dreams that DH would cheat. DH would totally not cheat in RL by the way. I'm 32 weeks pregnant with next baby.

Last night/this morn, I had a dream that DH had gone on a night out, had rampant sex all night with a girl who worked in asda and because he wouldn't tell me exactly what had gone on, I'd gone and got all the sordid details off her. I was angry at him and deciding whether to leave him or not.

What a bloody horrible dream to have! So today I'm in a foul mood with DH and the poor man doesn't know why. If I tell him what I've dreamed he'll be offended.

Anyone else have this? How can I avoid having these dreams? Less cheese???

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graciem · 27/12/2009 10:36

ooh ive had lots of the same dreams. tell hubby about your dream. he can reassure you and make you feel better, then you can both have a laugh about it.

Boogellyboo · 27/12/2009 10:40

I had these dreams too when pregnant with DD. I woke up a few times sobbing and DF had to just hold me and reassure me, I know he'd never cheat but the dreams were so real. I just told him as I knew he wouldnt be offended and would realise it was just hormones going crazy.

The worst one was a week after the birth, I truly believed he'd done it and was ready to cause him pain Nothing seemed to trigger them but Im glad they've stopped now!

Haggisfish · 27/12/2009 20:41

I've had dreams like this, too. I also dreamt I got totally wasted drunk last night and ended up sleeping in a random stranger's flat...when I woke up I had to properly trawl my memory to make sure it hadn't actually happened!

I think it is just you dealing with your sub conscious fears - not a lot you can do to stop them, I don't think either. Sorry!

mollybob · 28/12/2009 12:03

Yes I have this one - in last night's, in fact DH was talking about wanting to find sexy flexible girlfriends. Just the subconscious frightened of losing your partner at such a vulnerable time.

I also keep dreaming that I'm trying to drive my car from the back seat - so as well as being scared of losing DH I am also feeling that I'm not in control. Pregnancy is great!!!!

coldtits · 28/12/2009 12:05

sed to get these, as well as mid sleep pointlessorgasms. I think it's just a pregnancy thing. In my last trimester these swapped to "I had the baby and now it's lost and OMFG I CAN'T FINNNND IIIIT!!!!"

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 28/12/2009 20:40

At least it's not just me. Last night I dreamed I ran someone over (well they stepped out in front of my car at the last second) and I was being sent to jail for 30 years and would have to give birth in prison and pass it out to my DH to look after for the next 30 years.

Anyone else had any more weird ones?

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