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Oh God, im shitting myself here, what do i ned to do

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sunburntats · 07/12/2009 14:10

10+5 todya, jsut been to the loo and had brown discharge. not allot, just a bit.

i have a scan booked for Wed, (booked ages ago) should i just wait till then, see what happens over next day or what?

Please please, advise me, this is the furthest ive got, if i loose this it will be mc number 5 i cant go through that agin i cant.

Had scan at 7 weeks and they said that i had a haematoma behind the placenta which could come away, but ive had nothing, could it be that?
Cant tell dh, cant he will be devastated.

oh God why cant i do this right like every one else does?

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YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 09/12/2009 10:58

Oh tat I am so sorry

I hope you get some answers.

You will be fine, but you must let yourself grieve too. Please take some time to be sad.

Thinking of you and your DH

xxx

wibblela · 09/12/2009 11:47

Oh Tat, I echo the others sentiments, I am so so sorry I feel like I have gotten to know you, and been following your story - was really hoping that this would be a happy ending.

Your last post was so brave, and filled with wisdom. Don't detach yourself too much? Hope that you see the actual consultant and that you get to the bottom of this.

I was told I could never have children - I have a hormone disorder which stops me ovulating like a natural woman - and here I am pg, 17+6 weeks on, with no medical intervention, God is good. There is hope!!!

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your DH.

xxx

MrsMattie · 09/12/2009 11:51

I'm so sorry to hear this.

I do think that five miscarriages warrants some serious investigation. When you're feeling up to it, could you write to the consultant personally explaining your history and ask to see him? Back it up with a call to his secretary. You deserve some answers.

hoops997 · 09/12/2009 12:07

sunburn so sorry to hear what you are going through again, I agree with everyone else, you need some answers as to why this has happened....please be kind to yourself xxx

pixiestix · 09/12/2009 12:18

oh Tatty, Im so sorry

bramblebooks · 09/12/2009 12:28

I'm so sorry. Keep going. xx

PanicMode · 09/12/2009 12:31

I'm so sorry

thinking of you and and your DH - and agree with the others who say that you should definitely get to see the consultant himself to get some answers.

lal123 · 09/12/2009 12:33

Tat - so sorry. Hope you get answers you need. Look after yourself pet

Geocentric · 09/12/2009 13:11

Sorry to hear your news...

Rindercella · 09/12/2009 13:32

Oh Tats, I am so very sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your DH xxxx

RichardCranium · 09/12/2009 13:34

Oh Tats, so sorry love.

Thinking of you and your DH.

first1 · 09/12/2009 13:41

So sorry to hear your news. You sound so brave and I hope the consultant has some answers for you both x

RumourOfAHurricane · 09/12/2009 14:57

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memorylapse · 09/12/2009 16:48

sunburn..Im so sorry the outcome wasnt good..no 5 miscarriages is definitely not down to bad luck..have you had blood tests for clotting disorders?

LunaticFringe · 09/12/2009 19:21

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AntPants1 · 09/12/2009 19:46

I am so very sorry sweetheart.

Look after yourself. Really hope your consultant comes through and you get some answers.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

BooPen · 09/12/2009 21:03

I'm so very sorry. Thinking of you both x

RnB · 09/12/2009 21:11

Oh no Really sorry

maxpower · 09/12/2009 21:24

I'm so sorry. Ring the hospital and check that the consultant will be in clinic that day. Then, when you arrive, ask to see him and only him. You may have a bit of a wait, but they should be able to accomodate you. Good luck.

FifiForgot · 09/12/2009 21:41

I am so sorry to hear your news.

I second what Maxpower says. I had to endure many years of treatment before falling pregnant with DD. I never seemed to see the same Doctor twice until I asked to see the Consultant when I booked in for my appointment. You may have to wait, but you will be seen by him/her. I always do this now (32 weeks with No2) and I have seen my Consultant at every appointment.

I hope you have some answers soon.

morningpaper · 09/12/2009 21:45

so sorry tats

thinking of you x

TheTwelveDAISYofChristmas · 09/12/2009 22:38

aw no

so so sorry tats, I can only imagine how heart wrenching it must be for you

I hope that you get some answers as to why this keeps happening and can find a solution in the future.

purpleduckUnderTheMistletoe · 09/12/2009 22:57
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oopsandbabyJesusinacoconut · 10/12/2009 07:16

Tats - So sorry to hear you sad news. I second what others have said please phone the hospital and insist that you see the consultant for your next appointment, this is not just bad luck!

((((HUGS)))) for you both

MmeLindt · 10/12/2009 07:43

I am so sorry, Tats. I have been lurking in the hope that there would be a good ending to this.

Do insist on seeing the consultant. You deserve some answers.