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Oh God, im shitting myself here, what do i ned to do

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sunburntats · 07/12/2009 14:10

10+5 todya, jsut been to the loo and had brown discharge. not allot, just a bit.

i have a scan booked for Wed, (booked ages ago) should i just wait till then, see what happens over next day or what?

Please please, advise me, this is the furthest ive got, if i loose this it will be mc number 5 i cant go through that agin i cant.

Had scan at 7 weeks and they said that i had a haematoma behind the placenta which could come away, but ive had nothing, could it be that?
Cant tell dh, cant he will be devastated.

oh God why cant i do this right like every one else does?

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sunburntats · 07/12/2009 19:20

9.45.

Dh coming with me (of course) im going to need him.

And of course, your kind and supportive thoughts xxxx

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sunburntats · 07/12/2009 19:26

shineon you have hit the nail on the fecking head....you are absolutely right, you make 100% sense and i thank you for your wisdom.

come on tatty, sort your head out....normally i am a calm and un crazy bird, but seem to loose my head and normal functioning when it comes to this kinda thing.

Actually shineon, if it were me talking to a pal about this, your words are exactly what i would say to her!

ta chuck x

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RumourOfAHurricane · 07/12/2009 19:40

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RnB · 07/12/2009 19:50

sending positive thoughts to you and your dh, Tats x

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oopsandbabyJesusinacoconut · 07/12/2009 20:37

Sunburn - I have has 3mc and am now 15+5 I had bleeding at 7 weeks (brown blood), 10 week(brown blood) and last at 14 weeks (red and brown blood) I was very lucky to have my dating scan at 10 week and they found no reason for the bleed but it reassured me. My last bleed terrified me and I was told to self refer to the EPu anytime I felt unsure of how baby is doing. I have had a number of panics and turned up at the EPU for reassurance they has had a very quick scan showed me HB and let me go on my way.

Will bethinking of you at 9.45 on Wednesday and praying that you see your little bean with fluttering heatbeat, wriggling away.

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Geocentric · 08/12/2009 11:14

Sending good sticky vibes...

Just to let you know, I had bleeding episodes with my 1st and 2nd pregnancies (at 10 and at 7 weeks); think it was just natures way of saying slow down. DCs were fine.

YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 08/12/2009 14:43

sunburn are you ok? Hope you've got your feet up and an enormous box of chocolates to munch. We're all thinking of you on here.

xxx

pixiestix · 08/12/2009 17:12

Hope that you are ok, and that everything goes well for you tomorrow Tats

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sunburntats · 08/12/2009 17:57

worse today, fresh blood, and cramps, dont want to take anything strong pain killer wise (ive got some co codamol left from last mc) till i know.

Ive a very bad feeling about this tbh.

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mistletoekisses · 08/12/2009 17:59

Tats - to you. Am sending you lots of sticky vibes. Please rest up and let us know how tmrw scan goes.
xx

AntPants1 · 08/12/2009 18:25

I have everything crossed for you. You have everyone rooting for you.

All the best

A

xxx

first1 · 08/12/2009 18:30

All the best for the scan xx

Rindercella · 08/12/2009 19:19

Oh Tats, just more for you and wishing you all the best news at your scan tomorrow x

hoops997 · 08/12/2009 19:32

sunburn wishing you all the luck in the world for the scan in the morning, everything is going to be fine I'm sure, there are loads of ladies on here that have had bleeding in their pg's (me included) and have come out the other side with a beautiful healthy baby......every pg is different, positive thoughts and vibes being sent through the airwaves

RichardCranium · 08/12/2009 20:20

Will be thinking of you tomorrow tats.

katnkittens · 09/12/2009 01:31

Thinking of you tomorrow....

whensmydayoff · 09/12/2009 09:38

Im just reading this now so im crossing everything for you at your scan today.
Let us know how you are. xxx

SexOnFire · 09/12/2009 09:45

thinking of you.....

YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 09/12/2009 09:49

sunburn you I really hope you are ok. I've got all my fingers and toes crossed for a good outcome.

Thinking of you xxx

oopsandbabyJesusinacoconut · 09/12/2009 09:54

Sunburn

Thinking of you this morning, fingers crossed the scan has gone well.
xxxx

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sunburntats · 09/12/2009 10:46

Ended up in A&E last night on gas & air and morphine.
Spent the night on gynae ward.

Its all gone now, no miracle baby for tatty.

Gynae nurse said she would speak with the consultant and show him my notes. I have an appointment with him in a few weeks (not that i ever see him, always see his juniors)
She thinks that it needs closer investigation than i have had up till now.
5 miscarriages are not "bad luck" she tells me.
Ahh well, lets see what comes of it all. Ive already have bloods for kareotyping etc, not sure what else they can offer.

So, im ok, cant seem to muster up the energy to be sad or gutted, just want to get back to normal, quite honestly, i am a very lucky person. Not much in the way of bad things happen to me. I think that this is my bad luck in life, its crappy but could be much much worse.
Gotta keep perspective, and we have got so much to look forward to. So i will be fine i think.
x

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mrsshackleton · 09/12/2009 10:48

I am so, so sorry to hear that

Your last message is so wise and brave. I wish you all the best