Have name-changed because I've got a lot going on reported in MN atm, and I don't want anyone to go are you crazy?, but I have thought about this many times before and now I have a friend who has run out of money for any more IVF and is desperate for a child.
I have spoken to DH about this in the past, wrt this particular friend and how we might be able to help her, and he is supportive although we would both agree that right now is not the best time. However, if she still needs help in a couple of years time, I want to be as researched up as possible so that we can just get going (provided she agrees, - I'm making no assumptions)
Does anyone know where I would start in finding out how to go about this sensibly and how to find out about the process, treatment and likely risks to me and my family, as well as the costs. I would not charge a penny for profit, but would want to ensure that my children don't lose out on anything essential (I have a SN child in case you haven't got the hint from my name) if I am not able to provide it directly for a while.
I'd be interested to hear from anyone who has direct experience.
Many thanks.