HI ALL,3 weeks left 2 go n just found im having a boy!!!!!!!!!!!!YIPPPPPPPPPPPEEEEEEEEEEEEEE...over the moon as ive 2 girls 12 n 13....but also just a found a lovely big pile on the outside of my poor bum ((((...n boy does it hurt.....im useing anusol cream....but its still very painful....also have used ice pack....n eating very well...so plz any1 any suggestions as 2 wat i can do 2 ease it...it hurts 2 walk..sit down..stand up...n if im onest its making me cry....i cant handle it....plz help me (((