We want to find out the sex of DC2 but we don't want to tell anyone else so as not to spoil the surprise for them.
I'm worried about saying he/she or saying something like 'oooh i bought a lovely pink/blue outfit for the baby.'
My mum keeps saying not to find out because we will slip up and she really doesn't want to know, which in a way is making me more determined not to let anything slip out.
Has anyone managed it?