hi im sue im 41 yrs old & expecting baby no 8 thats rite u read it correct .we have 4 boys 4 girls oldest 21 but he has special needs so not like other 21yr olds .im nearly 12 wks pregnant now ,i had misscariage last march at 9 wks then d&c then no periods for 6mths so this baby was a nice surprise seeing doctors said i was go through menapause ,ive had this stabbing pain down by my groin area 2 day dont know wat it is .had a private scan at 8wks so no its not eptopic preg anyway just have to wait see wat scan nxt week says ,keeping my fingers crossed .regards sue