LOL, no sh*t Sherlock!
Seriously, I was pg as well so memory not too good (very self centred).
She was early 40's I think and a career woman (hate that phrase), first pg and unplanned. I don't think her husband was too pleased (think he was 50's) so there was some debate about whether she could go it alone or whether he would come round. Have a feeling moving abroad was playing a part as well.
Being so self centred I lost track of the thread but would love to know what happened if anyone knows or if she's still around.