Pregnancy and sex/strange dreams

[roseability]

DH and I normally have a good sex life but since I fell pregnant (number 2) it has been pretty much none existant.

I am 9 weeks and feeling so sick and exhausted and DH goes off sex to some extent during pregnancy (he won't admit it though!) so the combination of such factors doesn't make for a hot and sizzling time between the sheets!

However I have been having really horny dreams. I wake up gagging for it but can't face actually doing it iyswim. I just want to feel normal again, to enjoy food, to have energy and yes to have sex! I envy women who breeze through pregnancy and have an even hotter sex life, glowing with all those fertility hormones!

Rose, you would not believe some of my dreams. Bt not just erotic ones, some really violent ones too. They were around the same time too. I'm 16+6 now and haven't had one for a few weeks though.
My DH is the same, he isn't comfortable with the idea when i'm pregnant. Still, we are lookng forward to another honeymoon period when the baby arrives .

I have this in early pregnancy too, but it seems to fade out of the first tri - I think it's the hormones!
I always feel most like sex in the first tri as well, although most people seem to say it should be in the 2nd tri - that's when I go off it!!

It's quite disconcerting though isn't it? I dreamt about Scott Mills (R1 DJ) for some reason, although I have no interest in him in RL. I felt even more embarrassed when I realised the other week that he's gay!!

My sex drive went THROUGH THE ROOF when pg with dd2

DP thought all his Christmases had come at once

I keep having rude dreams about celebrity chefs. Last time it was Raymond Blanc, before it was Gordon Ramsay. Unspeakably rude. I don't even fancy them!
(actually Gordon Ramsay does it for me a bit...)