I'm looking for some honest experiences, both positive and otherwise, as I'm really struggling with the uncertainty.
My LMP was 19 September, which meant I should have been 6+4 at my scan on 4 November. I also estimate ovulation was around 6/7 October, which would put me at approximately 6+1.
I had a genuine faint positive pregnancy test on 19 October, which appeared within the test reading time. My blood hCG that day was 50.
I had an internal scan yesterday. They could see a gestational sac and yolk sac inside the uterus, but no fetal pole or heartbeat. They said the sac was too small to measure and thought it might simply be too early.
I'm booked for another scan in 12 days.
I'm finding the dating really difficult to understand. If I was genuinely around 6 weeks pregnant, I would have expected to see more by now. I appreciate ovulation dates aren't always exact, but given I had already tested positive on 19 October, I'm struggling to understand how I could be measuring around 5+2.
For background, I have a 3 year old daughter and I've had three missed miscarriages previously, all around 10 weeks (may 2025, nov 2025, April 2026). One was confirmed as trisomy 13 and the other two were unexplained. All my recurrent miscarriage investigations were normal.
I've been under a consultant this pregnancy, who initially estimated around a 70% chance of a successful pregnancy. I'm taking Cyclogest and have been offered weekly monitoring.
I'm now struggling emotionally. I feel completely numb and like I'm just existing until the next scan. I'm even considering staying off work until I know more.
I'm not looking for anyone to diagnose me, but I'd really appreciate hearing from anyone who has experienced:
- A gestational sac and yolk sac but no fetal pole at around 6 weeks.
- Measuring behind despite having an earlier positive pregnancy test.
- A sac that was initially too small to measure, followed by a healthy pregnancy.
- Or, equally, experiences where things unfortunately didn't progress.
I'm looking for honest experiences rather than false reassurance. I know nobody can tell me what will happen, but hearing from people who have been through something similar might help me get through the next 12 days.
Thank you. ❤️