Hi all and thank you for your replies, they've been really enlightening!
I am sorry i didn't log back in sooner, i tried to avoid the computer as to do more active/relaxing things in preparation for today. As you can see though I am very anxious, up since 3 am.
I will try to reply to all Qs in a single pos
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After 20 weeks I only had midwife-led appointments with all tests coming back clear (urine, glucose, pressure, tape measure...). My hospital does a 36 week scan as a top-up. I had mine at 35+6, which picked up the baby's size, and then a growth scan on 37+4. On both, baby is plotting on the 6th centile, with good dopplers for blood flow to the cord and placenta. The last midwife appointment at 38+3 though showed fundal height remaining the same at 36.5cm.
When I called the hospital again I was surprised to know if i had refused the induction they would have schedule another growth scan and more observations but would let the pregnancy progress, potentially up to 40w. Little bit lost here.
My husband and I are not particularly big, with normal bmi (albeit after my 1st pregnancy i am close to the limit; ), normal sized clothes (S, M), and relatively active. My first baby (37+3) came out 2.7kg, around the 12th centile, and I remember people commenting he was the smallest baby they had seen. He was above the 75th on his 2 year reviews, so all progressed well.
Their concern is if there is any deterioration with the placenta and baby is deprived of oxygen, blood, nutrient he will be very distresses and unable to progress with the birth and they might not have time to act. They recommend dilapan as it wont stress baby a lot, something that is usually the case with hormonal inductions. Problem is I am now in distress, I cannot see how this will help with labor.