Hi everyone, just after some advice!
I'm currently 26 weeks pregnant with baby number 2, who was conceived via ivf.
I have been seen several times in hospital due to heavy bleeds and have been diagnosed with a low lying placenta. I'm not sure to what degree, I was just told that there is a lobe of it very close to the cervix which is what is causing the bleeding. At 5 weeks I had a really heavy period like bleed that they think was a loss and it has caused a "dragging effect" of my placenta, so it's an odd shape!
I work in the NHS and my job is pretty physical, just on my feet a lot and helping patients etc. My boss is absolutely fantastic and supportive and has been throughout my pregnancy but I've already been signed off for 2 weeks sick after my first bad bleed and now that ive had another, 6 weeks after my last, my doctor is looking to sign me off again. I feel like a fraud!
My question is, has anyone else been in this same situation and can you tell me what you were advised to do? My obstetrics team have not been too good at giving me advice as to what they mean when they say that I should "rest". I asked the doctor the last time I was in hospital with a bleed if I should come out of work altogether and she shrugged her shoulders at me and said "rest means rest". She was extremely busy as maternity assessment was mental that night but I left feeling none the wiser.
I'm already on altered duties, I'm no longer doing 12 hour shifts or night shifts I am just working my core hours which are 8 hours a day Monday to Friday. Which was put into place after a heavy bleed at 17 weeks.
My hope is that the placenta will move the bigger I get but so far it has stayed put!
Any advise would be greatly appreciated thank you :)
I should say that I've had a previous emergency C section and my pregnancies have both been IVF!