No that's not true. The stats are probably about the same although reading recent maternity reports, I'd bet the number of babies who die after induction vs those who dies after 42 weeks is higher.
thefeelingofbeingalive ·
22/09/2026 13:27
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Lexibletheflexible ·
22/09/2026 13:22
Yeah. Like the risk of baby dying also comes with induction.
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thefeelingofbeingalive ·
22/09/2026 13:20
The “informed” choice to risk their baby dying?
Quoting ToKittyornottoKitty
Lexibletheflexible ·
22/09/2026 13:13
The point is that I'm not anti anything for anyone else. I'm for people making informed choices
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ToKittyornottoKitty ·
22/09/2026 13:07
The risk of being born fine at 43 weeks isn’t a risk though, the risk of dying is the risk. There’s a difference between informed choice, and anti induction because Lexi is happy for some babies to die because others won’t, and lexi thinks you may murder your baby anyway if birth leaves you with damage so it’s better off risking stillbirth. That’s not informed choice it’s just silly.
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Lexibletheflexible ·
22/09/2026 13:03
But you can be born healthily at 42 weeks plus. You can also be born by an unnecessary induction that harms you and your mother in other ways because you'd have been fine awaiting spontaneous labour like the vast majorty of babies born after 42 weeks.
This is why maternal informed choice is so important and not coercion or fear mongering
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ToKittyornottoKitty ·
22/09/2026 13:00
Yes… that’s what I said. You can’t be stillborn at 42+ weeks, if you aren’t in utero by then.
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Lexibletheflexible ·
22/09/2026 12:59
"If babies aren’t left in utero past 42 weeks, 0% of them will be stillborn."
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ToKittyornottoKitty ·
22/09/2026 12:58
Quoting ToKittyornottoKitty
Lexibletheflexible ·
22/09/2026 12:57
So postdates is the reason most or even all babies are stillborn? That sounds untrue
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ToKittyornottoKitty ·
22/09/2026 12:52
As if ‘not nearly half’ is a decent stat when discussing preventable deaths. If babies aren’t left in utero past 42 weeks, 0% of them will be stillborn. The placenta can’t fail if it’s no longer in use.
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Lexibletheflexible ·
22/09/2026 12:50
And not nearly even half of babies born after 42 weeks die.
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ToKittyornottoKitty ·
22/09/2026 12:43
So? It’s not particularly relevant to anything here, not all inductions end in birth trauma, not all people with birth trauma murder their babies or have mental health issues after, and the point of pregnancy isn’t to avoid birth trauma, it’s to have a live baby. Inductions can result in intervention, they can also save lives.
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Lexibletheflexible ·
22/09/2026 12:39
I'm showing the risks to high intervention birth, risks which include trauma/PPD/PPP
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ToKittyornottoKitty ·
22/09/2026 12:24
You’ve linked showing that birth trauma occurs more than stillbirth… you’ve not shown anything to suggest any reason at all why choosing to avoid induction is safer. The idea being getting pregnant is to have a live baby, you get that right?
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Lexibletheflexible ·
22/09/2026 12:18
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ToKittyornottoKitty ·
22/09/2026 12:13
Please could you link the evidence for that? Most people would rather take the risk of birth injury over a preventable death. But clearly you are not most people.
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Lexibletheflexible ·
22/09/2026 12:12
The chances of you leaving a birth with PTSD or PPD or even PPP is higher than you awaiting spontaneous labour post dates and your baby dying.
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ToKittyornottoKitty ·
22/09/2026 12:09
If the child is dead they won’t have a preference, obviously.
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Lexibletheflexible ·
22/09/2026 12:03
I wonder what your child would prefer? A mum who can't mum properly because she was so intent in doing what doctors in system proven to be misogynistic told her to do. Or a mum who felt empowered and in control enough to make truly informed decisions about her way forwards?
I wonder if Lynsey Clancy had any birth trauma for instance.
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sittingonabeach ·
22/09/2026 12:00
I’d rather that than a dead baby. That would be more traumatic
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Lexibletheflexible ·
22/09/2026 11:45
Unless you end up sectioned through birth trauma and don't get to spend time with your baby. Or you're so wrecked with mental health issues after their harrowing birth that you arent a very present, healthy or attentive mother.
Quoting makeupgirlie
Etincelle ·
22/09/2026 11:41
Yes. A healthy baby is more important than a perfect birth story
Quoting Casuallydresseddeepinconversation
makeupgirlie ·
22/09/2026 11:38
I think you really need to educate yourself.
A pregnancy lasting past 42 weeks increases the risk of medical complications for both baby and mother. Placental insufficiency, low amniotic fluid, meconium aspiration, macrosomia, stillbirth, postmaturity syndrome, severe tearing, postpartum haemorrhage, c-section or an assisted delivery.
We are not living in the 1800s we now have medical professionals, scientists and a hell of a lot of studies. Why would you put your baby or yourself at risk just because you want a ‘spontaneous’ delivery, medical professionals do not suggest inductions or interventions for the fun of it, they go on saving lives medical training and science. Not what did Harold do 200 years ago.
Quoting thefeelingofbeingalive
Casuallydresseddeepinconversation ·
22/09/2026 11:28
More babies and children die in car crashes,how many people on this thread drove their babies home from hospital
Quoting MagicUser1
thefeelingofbeingalive ·
22/09/2026 10:44
So that’s one.
Thats still a child dying. Why would you ever, ever choose that for a healthy child?!
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MagicUser1 ·
22/09/2026 10:40
the original stat is 0.09% which is very different to 0.09/1000. I don't know which is right.
But I'm being pedantic when actually, i agree. I can't work out the benefit of increasing the risk by keeping the baby inside when there's absolutely no question that baby will be healthy outside.
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thefeelingofbeingalive ·
22/09/2026 10:05
0.09 out of 1000 is 90.
So if 90 children were going to be shot at a school, you’d be comfortable with that?
Quoting Katrinawaves
Casuallydresseddeepinconversation ·
22/09/2026 08:01
It's mot exactly the same thing 😂 and the figure o posted was 0.09 not 0.9
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Katrinawaves ·
22/09/2026 07:35
Holy shit!
So if someone told you that a gunman was going into your child’s standard sized 3 form entry school tomorrow and would shoot 6 of the children stone dead, you’d send them in anyway? Because a 0.9% risk of death for no benefit to them is not particularly high!
It’s exactly the same thing.
Quoting WhatIsPink
Casuallydresseddeepinconversation ·
22/09/2026 06:41
Still birth risk is 0.09% past 42 weeks which I didn't think was particularly high, the 40 were dye date was decided in 1812 so particularly out dated, the 42 week rule was coined in 1976, nit everyone ovulate and conceives on the same day if their cycle so dute date is a massive guess anyway, the placenta doesn't have an expiry date and all of mine were perfectly healthy and functioning with no complications
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WhatIsPink ·
22/09/2026 00:08
Because of the stillborn risk? Are they spontaneous or usually comes with pre existing health issues?
Godrabbit ·
22/09/2026 00:05
Having worked in perinatal care, nothing on this earth could convince me to go over 41 weeks. If you don't want to be induced, have a section. It is just not worth it.