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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Pregnancy after loss

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Rma13 · 20/08/2026 15:47

Im nearly 11 weeks pregnant after a miscarriage in June. This is my 3rd pregnancy (I have a 10 year old) and this time i have no symptoms other than constipation and my boobs hurt 3-4 weeks ago but thats it. Sometimes I swear I can feel my uterus over my pubic bone but then today nothing. My anxiety is in over drive, scan not until the 3rd so two more weeks of waiting. How do I know everything is ok?

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Supernintendochalmers1 · 20/08/2026 17:54

I've had 2 losses, so I booked and paid for a private scan this time as I couldn't wait til 12 weeks. Mine was reasonable, around £50. Maybe you could do that?

mummyof2021boy · 20/08/2026 18:18

I've had 4 miscarriages. Then after getting told I couldn't have kids. Getting a dog. I fell pregnant. My son was born July 2021. Every single day every si gle time I went to the bathroom I checked for blood. Didn't get attached as I didn't wanna get hurt again. I know how your feeling. I really hope you have a good ending I really do.

Rma13 · 20/08/2026 19:10

@mummyof2021boy Thank you, thats literally what i keep doing and how I feel, I dont know how to get past it, im so glad you have your son ❤️

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ChasingRainbow5 · Yesterday 09:56

I've bled in every pregnancy (successful and unsuccessful) so have always had early scans at EPU, if I hadn't I definitely would have paid for a private scan. Is that an option for you?

Sending a massive hug, it's really really hard. I'm 19 weeks after a loss and still haven't full relaxed x

Rma13 · Yesterday 14:55

@ChasingRainbow5 It's unfortunately not an option, I just have to wait, literally counting down the days but even then dont know if i will relax! So sorry you've experienced the bad side too! Xx

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ChasingRainbow5 · Yesterday 14:59

@Rma13 my 20 week scan is on the same date as yours, I'll still be a nervous wreck then. Keeping everything crossed for you xx

Rma13 · Yesterday 17:36

@ChasingRainbow5 ill have everything crossed for you too! Thank you ❤️

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