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thoughts on Paternity/help with conception. TW/ assault

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bozamble · 04/08/2026 20:46

was having sex with a close friend may 26th-june 10th. on the 12th i got black-out drunk at a small house party and ended up in bed with a different guy, who admitted to having ejaculated inside. i tested on the 26th of June and got a very dark second line, and two days later on the 28th had an ultrasound which showed a little gestational sac which they dated 5 weeks. I started to have some bleeding some time after this and have had 2 ultrasounds due to continual spotting and cramping.
On July 6th, I was measuring 6w+3d. And just now on August 2nd I've had my first official OB ultrasound which put me at around 10w+4d (crl 3.2 cm) and was given a due date of February 28th.
we are having a DNA test done but awaiting that has me so nervous and i'm needing support, and also wanting to know what you guys think. thanks in advance

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BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 04/08/2026 20:51

That gestational age puts your conception at 30th May so the chances are it is the first man, especially if you were having a lot of sex as it’s also an odds game at that point.

Did you use protection with your friend?

GooseyDuck · 04/08/2026 20:55

Probably the first guy, but not certainly. I take it you’re keeping the baby? Do they both know?

bozamble · 04/08/2026 22:20

yes, they are both aware

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bozamble · 04/08/2026 22:21

no protection used with my friend. i'm at a point though where i feel ready as ill ever be to have a baby, and he's been very supportive

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