NERVOUS! After Multiple missed miscarriage we are pregnant again and have our 12 week scan, just need advice on nerves and anxiety and experiences

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Hey, new here. I have had 3 previous missed miscarriages, each measured at the point of us finding out at 8 weeks, 4 weeks and 7 weeks. I am pregnant again. Today i am 11 weeks and 6 days. i have had private scans at 6 weeks and 6 days, 8 weeks, 9 weeks and 2 days wnd at 10 weeks all.of which showed a healthy heartbeat and good growth. We have our 12 week scan next week, I have had a little bleed, which after a test showed the baby is totally fine (10 weeks and 3 days. However I feel really worried and anxious. What is the likelihood all is ok?

Someone shared this link on here in my first pregnancy and I found it quite comforting to watch the percentages go down: Miscarriage Probability Chart

I'm 10 weeks after a loss and I totally understand the anxiety, it's horrible. Sending you a big hug and wishing lots of luck xx

Im not surprised you are nervous after all you have been through

My main advice would be tell the sonographer when you get into the room about your history - we did this and confirmed the heartbeat straight away to put us at ease

Wishing you all the luck 🤍

Try and relax, you’ve made it this far. You’re bound to be nervous and riddled with anxiety. My advice to you is when you have your scan, ask the sonographer to keep talking you through it with no awkward silence. The very best of luck.