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Tips for trying to conceive at 41 for a second baby

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Mummabear2one · 26/05/2026 09:07

Any tips for getting pregnant. I'm 41 with a just 2 year old. I want to have another one as being older parents it would be lovely for them to have a sibling. I also would love another.

I am only now starting to feel like myself. I didn't have any issues but being a parent really threw me and changed everything about myself.

So with being ready now.
I used preseed with my 1st & got pregnant 1st time round which I'm not sure if it was a coincidence.
I heard a cough medicine works too as it helps the cervical mucus.
Is there anything that worked for you?
Would love to hear. ✨ ✨

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StormGazing · 26/05/2026 09:10

I used agnus castus. I think weight plays a big part,
so put on a little if underweight and lose if a bit overweight. Guafenisin (from some cough meds) certainly seemed to make more CM but not sure it helped me personally

ChasingRainbow5 · 26/05/2026 09:55

Hey, I'm the same as you, 41 with a 2-year-old (and got pregnant first time).

I took Ubiquinol (the more expensive form of CoQ10), Proceive supplements (again more expensive than other conception supplements, can you spot a theme here 😅) choline inisitol and high strength folic acid. I had an early loss and am very early pregnant again.

Good luck!

Mummabear2one · 27/05/2026 09:26

That's great, thank you!

I'm the same weight as when I got pregnant with my 1st. I will see how I get on with all your tips. I read a small dose of aspirin can help too? So bizarre.

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overwork · 27/05/2026 10:08

One thing I would suggest, and please don’t let me stress you. But if it hasn’t happened for you in a few months, go for checks earlier rather than later. We diligently tried for a year, then had checks and found a problem which was caused by previous birth, and I’ll not get pregnant naturally now. I’m cross with myself for wasting that whole year that we just don’t have in our 40’s!

Selkie33 · 27/05/2026 10:15

This site, just to add to previous tips @Mummabear2one

BookLogistics · 27/05/2026 15:23

Two brazil nuts a day. Good luck!

Mummabear2one · 27/05/2026 21:00

Thank you everyone! I've booked myself into Fertility Acupuncture, I've heard great results so I will let you know of any updates.

I'm super blessed to have the one I have so anything extra would be the cherry on top
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VeganSteakAndFries · 27/05/2026 21:06

ChasingRainbow5 · 26/05/2026 09:55

Hey, I'm the same as you, 41 with a 2-year-old (and got pregnant first time).

I took Ubiquinol (the more expensive form of CoQ10), Proceive supplements (again more expensive than other conception supplements, can you spot a theme here 😅) choline inisitol and high strength folic acid. I had an early loss and am very early pregnant again.

Good luck!

What does C0Q10 do?

ChasingRainbow5 · 28/05/2026 10:59

@VeganSteakAndFries

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