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Positive stories?

17 replies

NeatGuide · 08/03/2026 07:07

Hi everyone,

I’m currently 5 weeks pregnant after two back to back miscarriages, so I’m so terrified that something is going to go wrong. Has anyone got any positive stories on having a healthy 3rd pregnancy after two losses?

I do also have pcos, but I ovulate naturally by myself and fall pregnant by myself too. But I seen online a few months ago that pcos is supposed to be linked to higher miscarriage rates??? Anyone know anymore about this from a doctor etc telling them?

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didgeridid · 08/03/2026 07:11

Firstly, congratulations 🎉

I was fortunate and fell pregnant straight away after our miscarriage and went on to have a healthy pregnancy. It was constantly filled with anxiety through so I totally get you.
My friend had two miscarriages and was on the path to find out what was going on, she fell pregnant again and her baby is is now a year old.
Hope you get your happy ending 🩷

NeatGuide · 08/03/2026 07:38

Thank you so much🙏 this really gives me hope ❤️

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LER2023 · 08/03/2026 08:19

Ive had 3 miscarriages, i know it isny 2.
But i currently have my 4 month old asleep beside me right now.

Not all ptegnancies end in miscarriage, there will be so many people out there who has had their babies after 2 miscarriages. Just take it a day at a time and congratulations x

CrazyKJ · 08/03/2026 14:28

Hi @NeatGuide, I’m also 5 weeks after 2 MCs. So can’t speak for what’s next but completely understand the anxiety. Every little cramp makes me worried it’s happening all over again. I’m just trying to get through each day as I’m hoping with each week that passes I’ll feel more relaxed 🤞 Sending hugs, hope it’s a healthy pregnancy for you X

NeatGuide · 08/03/2026 18:43

LER2023 · 08/03/2026 08:19

Ive had 3 miscarriages, i know it isny 2.
But i currently have my 4 month old asleep beside me right now.

Not all ptegnancies end in miscarriage, there will be so many people out there who has had their babies after 2 miscarriages. Just take it a day at a time and congratulations x

Thank you so much! The anxiety is just unreal

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NeatGuide · 08/03/2026 18:45

CrazyKJ · 08/03/2026 14:28

Hi @NeatGuide, I’m also 5 weeks after 2 MCs. So can’t speak for what’s next but completely understand the anxiety. Every little cramp makes me worried it’s happening all over again. I’m just trying to get through each day as I’m hoping with each week that passes I’ll feel more relaxed 🤞 Sending hugs, hope it’s a healthy pregnancy for you X

Congratulations, I hope everything works out for you 🤞🤞🤞 and everyday it’s all that’s on my mind, what if something goes wrong again? I just don’t know if id be able to go through another one! It’s a complete mind fuck 🤦‍♀️

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aLogLady · 08/03/2026 19:03

I’m on pregnancy no. three after two mcs (one mmc and one ectopic). Now in my 24th week :) ivf, not very easy for us to get pregnant but hopefully still reassuring to you!

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 08/03/2026 19:10

I lost my first two babies but the third one is now 42 years old.
Good luck OP.
I know how scared you're feeling.

NeatGuide · 08/03/2026 19:16

aLogLady · 08/03/2026 19:03

I’m on pregnancy no. three after two mcs (one mmc and one ectopic). Now in my 24th week :) ivf, not very easy for us to get pregnant but hopefully still reassuring to you!

Congratulations ❤️ and thank you

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NeatGuide · 08/03/2026 19:16

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 08/03/2026 19:10

I lost my first two babies but the third one is now 42 years old.
Good luck OP.
I know how scared you're feeling.

❤️

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RosesAndHellebores · 08/03/2026 19:21

Sometimes it's just bad luck @NeatGuide. DS was born after two MC's. DS2 was born at 27 weeks (and was too unwell to survive) and after an MMC at 12 weeks. After DS2 I got pg v quickly and lost at 5 to 6 weeks. DD was born at term 51 weeks after DS2, pink, fat and screaming.

She's nearly 28.

Good luck Flowers

BusiBo · 08/03/2026 19:27

After one miscarriage, years of infertility and eventually IVF.... I am now 30 weeks pregnant. I can completely relate to the anxiety. Try to take one day at a time, and I found remaining myself of the stats helpful....its most likely that everything will be fine x I also repeated positive affirmations to myself, with one favourite being 'This is a different pregnancy, with a different outcome'. Wishing you lots of luck x

NeatGuide · 08/03/2026 20:05

RosesAndHellebores · 08/03/2026 19:21

Sometimes it's just bad luck @NeatGuide. DS was born after two MC's. DS2 was born at 27 weeks (and was too unwell to survive) and after an MMC at 12 weeks. After DS2 I got pg v quickly and lost at 5 to 6 weeks. DD was born at term 51 weeks after DS2, pink, fat and screaming.

She's nearly 28.

Good luck Flowers

🥹❤️

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NeatGuide · 08/03/2026 20:07

BusiBo · 08/03/2026 19:27

After one miscarriage, years of infertility and eventually IVF.... I am now 30 weeks pregnant. I can completely relate to the anxiety. Try to take one day at a time, and I found remaining myself of the stats helpful....its most likely that everything will be fine x I also repeated positive affirmations to myself, with one favourite being 'This is a different pregnancy, with a different outcome'. Wishing you lots of luck x

Congratulations, this makes me so happy to read🥹❤️

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LPR16 · 09/03/2026 19:00

didgeridid · 08/03/2026 07:11

Firstly, congratulations 🎉

I was fortunate and fell pregnant straight away after our miscarriage and went on to have a healthy pregnancy. It was constantly filled with anxiety through so I totally get you.
My friend had two miscarriages and was on the path to find out what was going on, she fell pregnant again and her baby is is now a year old.
Hope you get your happy ending 🩷

I needed to hear a positive story like this today. I'm currently 6 weeks pregnant, 10 weeks post miscarriage and a ball of anxiety

LPR16 · 09/03/2026 19:01

NeatGuide · 08/03/2026 07:07

Hi everyone,

I’m currently 5 weeks pregnant after two back to back miscarriages, so I’m so terrified that something is going to go wrong. Has anyone got any positive stories on having a healthy 3rd pregnancy after two losses?

I do also have pcos, but I ovulate naturally by myself and fall pregnant by myself too. But I seen online a few months ago that pcos is supposed to be linked to higher miscarriage rates??? Anyone know anymore about this from a doctor etc telling them?

I'm wishing you all the luck. Have you spoken to your EPU about being prescribed progesterone? I’ve just started on it in the hope it’ll help this pregnancy hold.

TheBirdintheCave · 09/03/2026 20:49

I had three miscarriages in a row (also PCOS) but the pregnancy after that was a sticky bean and my daughter is now nearly two 🥰 The anxiety is absolutely crazy. I cried before every scan. You have to take it one day at a time. I have everything crossed for you ❤️

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