When to decide to do kids alone

[Shiraros]

Hi all, I am almost 36 years old in a few weeks. I’ve known my whole life I want to be a mom. I also very much want to find the partner/husband to go through life with. I loved being in a committed relationship and I want to do the journey with someone. My last relationship ended tragically unfortunately but it made me realize how much I do want that. I’m on all the apps and putting myself out there but no luck yet. So I’m wondering if anyone has put an age “deadline” so to speak as to when you decide to just go forward solo? I am freezing my eggs currently and they’re plentiful so that’s good. I don’t want to give up on finding my person but also know there is a time consideration so wondering other people’s thoughts. Thanks!

I personally think if you feel like you are ready, have the financial means to do parenthood alone, know your long term plan then it’s whenever is right for you. There is no right or wrong as long as that child will be supported financially, emotionally, physically etc

Im in a relationship now but I put thought into this a few years ago and decided I would start the process of solo motherhood at 36ish with hopes of having a baby in my arms by 38. And I considered that if things didn’t fall into place by 42 then I would go down the adoption route instead. If my relationship ended tomorrow I’d probably still hope for the same timeline.