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Feeling so deflated

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Notmycuppatea · 06/02/2026 20:48

Feeling so deflated. Im 23 weeks pregnant, and have been anemic since day 1. Iron tablets arent helping and now my B12 is low.

I have been short of breath the whole pregnancy but last few weeks its got worse. Im so fatigued, im struggling to stay awake and have palpitations. I spoke to midwife who did bloods who said my b12 ferritin was low. I asked for IV Iron transfusion as im really symptomatic and last summer before pregnancy i was anemic and Gp believed i had absorption issues as I ate a lot of veg and red meat. I also asked for b12 injections. She wrote to consultant who booked me in for 2 weeks time

But last 2 days ive been crying a lot and feeling so fatigued and short of breath. And I just dont feel right. Midwife said to go Maternity assessment to be seen quicker. Maternity assessment said ED to rule out PE. But I have been symptomatic for weeks and just want to feel better before im heavily pregnant.

Any advice appreciated. Im currently waiting for 111 to ring back as I genuinely dont feel I need ED.

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FiftyShadesOfPurple · 08/02/2026 20:05

Bumping for you - hope someone has advice Flowers

Notmycuppatea · 08/02/2026 20:34

Thank you. I spent all day in ED, then SDEC then Maternity to be told no to an iron transfusion even though I begged them saying I cant go on like this. They said because my Hb is ok, i dont need it. But i explained my ferritin is low and really impacting me physically and mentally. Got given funny looks and Ended up storming out 😟

Im going private for iron transfusion and going to see GP tomorrow to ask for b12 injections. Fingers crossed ill feel better afterwards

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FiftyShadesOfPurple · 08/02/2026 22:04

That's awful. You really shouldn't have to pay to go private! I hope you can get the iron transfusion sort out quickly and that your GP takes you more seriously than the hospital.

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