9dp5dt and it’s a negative

[Stanno]

Feeling really gutted today. Had my final FET recently (just turned 43) and threw everything at it, lost 4 stone, paid for embryo glue and started on blood thinners and it looks like it was all for nothing. By my last two transfers (MMC & chemical) I was positive at this point.

I can’t keep putting myself through this financially and emotionally but I really thought that the above would be the game changer.

Time to accept that kids aren’t my destiny I think 😢

I'm so sorry @Stanno, I don't really have anything helpful to offer but sending love at this shitty time. It's so hard when you do everything right and it doesn't work. Be kind to yourself and give yourself plenty of permission to be sad xx

I'm so sorry. I went through 3 transfers and it was absolutely devastating when each one failed. Each time we'd change something, such as going through a 'scratch' procedure which was expensive and painful, and each time I'd hope that this one would be the one that worked, but it never did. It's gutting each time.

I don't know your circumstances but could you change ivf providers? I've known people to have success when they go somewhere new.

Either way, you're not alone, it's a shitty experience x

Thank you xx