Hi,
I’m six months pregnant - I already have a child from a previous relationship - the best dad!!
This pregnancy wasn’t planned - partner told me he would support me whatever I wanted but deep down I know he wanted me to abort the baby. Anyway he does nothing to help me. I cook I clean I do the washing I take out the bins (2nd floor flat) I do the food shop.
He will finish his tea and rather than using the water in the bowl to wash his plate he will just leave it in there for me.
Ive had loads of issues this time - carpel tunnel and now a bad back. I’m in agony, constantly. It’s now nearly 10pm and I’ve just got round to eating the cold sausages I cooked for his and my son’s tea at 5:30 this evening.
Never any offer of making me a cup of tea, just sits there on his xbox or his phone.
I’ve spoken to him about it and he says I need to write him a list of what he needs to do that day - I’m not his mother. Why is it so hard for a man to see his pregnant girlfriend is tired and in pain and asking if he can make her a cup of tea.
I do love him, I feel sad for this baby who is coming into a situation like this. I also feel ashamed of having 2 children with 2 different dads.
Do I leave? Live with my 2 children alone or stay and accept this life?