AbsolutelyCompletelyCrazyMum5 ·
07/11/2025 01:50
Okay I’m totally new here. First ever thread so Hi everyone.
I really really need some reassurance/ advice/ relatable stories from you lovely people.
its a long story but…
1st Oct was my last period. 27/28 day cycle usually. We are actively TTC so I was tracking my cycle using clear blue advance ovulation test and cheap ones off Amazon too.
I got a solid smiley on 12th October, so ovulation was writhing 24/48 hours. We did the deed twice over the two days of peak LH.
fast forward to the 24th Oct I got my first very faint BFP and honestly I was in complete shock. Over the next couple of days I took a fair few different test and felt happy that test line was getting darker each time. I took my first clear blue weeks indicator on 27th Oct, this confirmed I was 1-2 weeks pregnant.
BUT I’ve taken so many clear blue since then and the weeks indicator is still telling me 1-2 weeks. I understand that it is calculated from conception not LMP but I’m 5+2 weeks today so should absolutely be getting 2-3 or even 3+ but I’m not. I always use FMU so it’s not a dilution thing and honestly I’m starting to lose the plot with worry that my pregnancy isn’t progressing as it should.
it’s too soon to get an ultrasound privately as they are all from 6 weeks which is 5 days away but may as well be 5 years with the anxiety I’m feeling right now. I just want some one to tell me it will all be okay. I’m testing multiple times daily now and every time I use the toilet I’m expecting to see blood as my mind has convinced me that I’m about to miscarry. I’ve not actually had any pain or bleeding so I guess that’s a positive sign 🤷♀️
Do you think this sounds typical of blighted ovum maybe? (this is my thoughts)….. If you have read the full paragraph I’ve just wrote on the last month of my life, thank you I appreciate it.
I think my husband is sick of me saying the same thing over and over so it would be good to hear from other ladies with similar stories (good or bad I guess) just someone to talk to.
thank you again 🥰
here are my tests that I’ve done in order