Who’s the father

[Marianhxo]

had sex 1st June with “friend”

and on the 8th/9th June with ex
my due date is 3/3/2026
tring to work out who’s is it ?

stressing out so much

I was going through a bad time with my ex mentally he was stressing me out we broke up for 3 months . Ended up sleeping with an old friend on the 1st June and then regretted it and made amends with my ex on the 8th/9th June now I’m pregnant I feel sick .

Who knows? Do you want to continue with the pregnancy? If not then don’t waste time on it, and concentrate on making sure you don’t find yourself in this situation again.

Only a dna test will tell you.

Most likely your ex. But could be either.

It would be helpful to know when your LMP was, and how long your cycles tend to be.

have you had a child before?

I grow 'large' babies - so my dates were always further along than the average (the NHS would not look at my charts - which showed when I had sex and my temps and insisted I was due a full week later than I was.

If this is the same for you - it could be person 1 - if you have a small/average sized baby more likely to be the ex.

You will need a DNA test to know for sure - unless the two men look very different

Based on dates and a regular 28 day cycle, you ovulated around the 10th so it’s most likely the ex but still possible to be the friend.

DNA testing (which can be done using blood from mother and tongue sample from father) would prove it, but only privately, and obviously only by consent. Never been in the position, and I would imagine it would take a fair bit of honesty Unless the baby is going to be greeted with open arms by ex, regardless, of who is the dad, or you are happy to being up the child with less support, I think you probably want to find out. It is difficult for people to advise if they have never been in the position, but I think if it was my son in the same boat, I would advise him to do the swab regardless of everything. It does matter massively whether you want to go through with the pregnancy, if you don't, then some of this is academic, if you do, then it matters. It's a hard one, and I feel for you xx

No one here is going to be able to tell you.

You’ll need a test after the baby is born, if you have it.

Most probable conception dates: Jun 8, 2025 - Jun 12, 2025
Most probable dates of sexual intercourse that led to the pregnancy: Jun 5, 2025 - Jun 12, 2025

Possible conception dates: Jun 7, 2025 - Jun 17, 2025
Possible dates of sexual intercourse that led to the pregnancy: Jun 2, 2025 - Jun 17, 2025

Could be either. You need a dna test.

Thank
you everybody can believe I got myself In this pickle.

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Just be honest with them both and get the test done when baby is born, then its not hanging over you. It is what it is op, cant be changed now. X

We have the same due date! Based on when I conceived your ex is the father x