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Has anyone, with multiple children, NOT had a miscarriage?

92 replies

Pleasegetmeacoffeesotired · 18/10/2025 13:47

I'm aware this may be an insensitive question so I'm sorry if this offends anyone. It's absolutely not my intention. I'm just extremely anxious right now and looking for some reassurance.

I'm very early on in my second pregnancy, my first dd was conceived in one "try", and so was this pregnancy. I think the main source of my anxiety is the thought that how could I possibly be so lucky to get pregnant so easily and then be so lucky to have two healthy babies just like that?

I'm very aware of how common miscarriage is, especially with October being Pregnancy and Infant loss awareness month, so I've seen a lot about it on social media recently. That's probably compounding my anxiety too.

I feel like it's "my turn" to have a loss, since my first pregnancy was successful. I know that sounds crazy.

Again, I'm very sorry, if I've offended anyone.

OP posts:
TwoBlueFish · 20/10/2025 12:16

2 pregnancies, no m/c and both times got pregnant very easily (age 30 & 31). I appreciate that I’m very lucky.

mrssunshinexxx · 20/10/2025 12:18

3 pregnancies no miscarriages, I often think how grateful and lucky I am I know many many women suffer x

Todooloo · 20/10/2025 12:19

2 babes, 2 pregnancies. No miscarriages. Pregnant in first month of trying.

I say that but I never tested early (except the last child). I always waited until I had morning sickness to test so probably 7-8 weeks.

So I may have had early miscarriages throughout periods of my life and not known. Who knows.

RoamingToaster · 20/10/2025 12:23

2 children in my mid/late thirties and no miscarriages. Consider myself fortunate. We have thought about a third. I think you can worried reading certain posts on here as you just read the negative experiences.

Xiaoxiong · 20/10/2025 12:23

Same as @Todooloo - 2 babies, 2 pregnancies, no miscarriages (but never tested earlier than 10-11 weeks either).

I've actually never said it out loud before to anyone but DH as I feel so lucky and I know it's a heartbreaking subject for many. I can't imagine it coming up in conversation unless on an anonymous forum like this one.

HalloweenIsComing · 20/10/2025 12:33

2 pregnancies, both conceived first cycle both healthy babies.
I have never had a miscarriage but have had intermittent red spotting and some mucous plug loss on and off for both pregnancies up until the third trimester, especially during exercise and ahem no2 and sex so think I just have a friable cervix.
I've been a bit nervous because of the bleeding and also because I'm rhesus negative (thankfully 2nd baby is also rhesus neg) but I'm 30 weeks now so a lot more relaxed.

Fishingboatbobbingnight · 20/10/2025 12:43

3 dc 5 pregnancies. Blessed with what I have. MC between
1&2 and 2&3

springautumn · 20/10/2025 14:26

Four children no miscarriages and I have PCOS so have felt very lucky

Rituelec · 20/10/2025 14:27

4 children. No miscarriage im aware off

pamplemousse19 · 20/10/2025 15:25

2 pregnancies and no miscarriages for me. Conceived at 35 and 37 years of age- the first took 6 months of ttc and the second only took 1 month. I am grateful for being so lucky

xMonochromeRainbowx · 20/10/2025 16:15

I had 3 children at 19, 21 and 22, never had a miscarriage. I'm now pregnant again for the 4th time at 27, 9 weeks today and everything's fine so far.

CareBear17 · 20/10/2025 17:24

I’m 37&6 with baby 4 right now. No miscarriages and from what I’ve learned during my first trimester anxiety it’s not as uncommon as you think.

ecossegirl91 · 20/10/2025 20:10

Also very lucky - 2 babies and no miscarriages, both conceived easily too after 15 years on the pill. First baby on first month and second baby on the second month of trying. Fortunate indeed.

writingsonthewall · 20/10/2025 20:11

4 and none

Elektra1 · 20/10/2025 20:12

I had a bad miscarriage before my first successful pregnancy, and an early miscarriage after that. It is common, though no less distressing when it happens.

JSMill · 20/10/2025 20:13

3 babies, got pregnant easily and no miscarriages. I know I am extremely lucky as most of my friends and family have not had the same experience.

lljkk · 20/10/2025 20:23

I had 4 live births, no m/c.
I know people who had alternating successful FT pregnancies with m/c, many times. But most people don't talk about it and then people feel like they are unusual or unlucky when mc happens to them.

Someone I know had 13 mc (ouch). She openly says she found it difficult to bond with her baby son (14th pregnancy, now age 21 yrs). She just couldn't emotionally believe that she finally managed to have a baby.

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