Trying to convince after 40 and miscarriage

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Hi, I’m 40 years old and have two children lastvone will be 3 soon. I had missed miscarriage few months ago at 8 weeks found out at 10. Now I’m having chemical at 5w1d. Can you tell me positive stories getting pregnant after 40 and miscarriage please. I feel like I’m playing with fire and universe is trying to tell me something 😤😣

Hi. I’m sorry to read about what you’ve been through, especially the MMC. They’re so cruel.

I’m 40, currently 7+3 after five months trying and three chemical losses. It seemed like we had no problem conceiving, we just had to wait for that right egg to meet the right sperm, and 🤞🏻 it continues.
It sounds similar for you, that everything is working and it will just take a little bit longer to get those perfect cells. Try not to lose heart. It’s worth continuing if you can, but maybe take a break to emotionally heal if you need to x

@EmPeEfthank you 💚and congratulations 🧡

I'm 42, conceived on the second cycle without doing much at all (tracked ovulation) and am currently 41 weeks 😆with my second child.....waiting very patiently (not). Had my first age 39, again quite easy conception after I'd let my cycles return to normal after 18 years of the pill.

So it's absolutely possible! Fingers crossed for you!

I'm so sorry you've been through these losses OP. I'm 35 but my egg quality was a concern, maybe contact a fertility specialist to discuss how you can improve that if it's an issue.

I had a miscarriage at 41, I’m now 42 with a healthy 1-year-old :)

@Bineganzeameendeethank you 💚

@JuniperandI thank you 💚I think I may have to consider that

@Cinaithank you 💚and congratulations ☺️