Hi all,
For background - super irregular periods, took almost 18 months to conceive my first 4 years ago, lots of tracking and tears along the way.
This time I thought I won’t stress, I’ll come off the pill end of May. Had my first period a month after coming off the pill so late June, then another bleed on 28th July. Due period end of August as I thought, had no major bleed but spotting so never took this for a period. Stupidly can’t remember the date of spotting.
So I tested positive for the first time on 05/09/25. Unsure of ovulation as I wasn’t tracking, just felt ‘off’.
Moving on to last Tuesday 7th October, had a stitch like pain so called epu, they advised to come in for scan on Thursday (9th). Going from my last proper period (July) I dated myself at almost 10 weeks. Sonographer went super quiet and told me sac not measuring for a 10 week pregnancy. He said it’s either likely to be only a 6 week pregnancy in which case are yet to find anything in the sac, or if my dates are correct then baby had unfortunately died at 6 weeks so a MMC. Told me to wait 2 weeks for re scan.
I’m now panicking and even though dates could be wrong, I’m thinking the worst 😞 has anyone been so wrong with their dates and has a positive story for me? All I see online is negatives from this.
Thanks in advance x