Considering abortion but not sure

[Oliviajones95]

Hello on Thursday last week I found out I’m pregnant with twins there’s two sacs already made a post saying that I’ve got a child with SEN needs
This just adds more to my complications because I have no help and no have family support
I’m considering an abortion because I don’t know if we’re able to cope my partner wants to keep them but I’m not sure I’m worried I’m gonna upset him. I don’t know what to do. I’m six weeks.

Sending you a virtual hug. Sadly no one can give you the answer to this but i think deep down if you do not want them that’s your answer, it will be a hard lifetime commitment and it’s so hard when you have no support.
Hope you are ok x

How much does your partner currently do?
Is he likely to step up more when you have three kids? (And the twins jay also have conditions which require additional support meaning one of you will likely have to be a stay at home parent. That doesn’t seem to end well judging by MN posts, with women being cash starved while their partners spend less ajd less time at home as they are too busy with fun mates etc.

I had a medical abortion five months ago due to a personal reasons and circumstances. It was mainly health reasons to be honest. Pregnancy is really tough for my body. It’s not just a morning sickness that gets me all the other symptoms too that happened to me all in one go dizziness tiredness fainting constant nausea, constant vomiting, you name it I’ve had it But now I’ve accidentally shockingly got pregnant again I went for an ultrasound because I had pains down there, and I was scared. It would be a ectopic pregnancy but it’s not it turns out it’s twins and I don’t really want twins going from one child who’s got additional needs to three is my idea of hell My partner really wants me to have the twins, however I don’t really want to go through that considering pregnancy is really hard on my body I don’t know what to do

Can I kindly ask what did you end up doing? Also pregnant 8 months pp and 3 year old special needs really struggling to decide x