Please help me….

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Mummy2323 · 27/08/2025 07:02

My anxiety is going through the roof. We have a work activity day coming up soon. I am currently 4w+6 and not planning on telling anyone yet. I’ve researched the activities and they say not to take part if pregnant or think you maybe pregnant. I am also down as being a driver to get other colleagues to the event. What do I do??

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

CharlotteRae · 27/08/2025 07:04

Have a quiet word with a manager you can trust, I think that’s all you can do really without looking like you are just letting people down. These things happen though so don’t worry!

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Mummy2323 · 27/08/2025 07:09

CharlotteRae · 27/08/2025 07:04

Have a quiet word with a manager you can trust, I think that’s all you can do really without looking like you are just letting people down. These things happen though so don’t worry!

The only problem I have is I don’t think their is any confidentiality at my place and everyone will know then but not let me know that they know. My husband said to ring in sick day before and on the day 🙈

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IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 27/08/2025 07:15

You’ve got the trots on that day haven’t you OP so you won’t be in work.

MidnightPatrol · 27/08/2025 07:15

What kind of activities are we talking about?

At <8 weeks there’s very little I’d imagine was off-bounds. At this point the baby is just a really tiny tiny cluster of cells, so very well protected!

But otherwise… I’d develop some sort of injury which means you can’t do the activities a day before eg back, wrist - whatever works best to get out of it.

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Mummy2323 · 27/08/2025 07:20

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 27/08/2025 07:15

You’ve got the trots on that day haven’t you OP so you won’t be in work.

Thank you 💖

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Mummy2323 · 27/08/2025 07:20

MidnightPatrol · 27/08/2025 07:15

What kind of activities are we talking about?

At <8 weeks there’s very little I’d imagine was off-bounds. At this point the baby is just a really tiny tiny cluster of cells, so very well protected!

But otherwise… I’d develop some sort of injury which means you can’t do the activities a day before eg back, wrist - whatever works best to get out of it.

They are things like shooting and them kind of activities

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