TW: ABORTION
I just found out I'm pregnant after a reckless "so called method" that's been working for us until now.
We've got an almost 2 year old and while I know I want another one, my partner is truly on the fence - he'd be open to it when DS is older (and easier) and we don't have to pay double nursery fees.
I'm sure I'll be terminating this pregnancy due to my partner not being on board. He's very logically minded so he sees that we're not rock solid as a couple (DS truly knocked us out and we've had couples therapy), not the wisest decision financially and the fact he's struggling with DS and not sure whether he wants another one.
I know this right for us but can't stop thinking that if I had a partner who was excited about the pregnancy, I would be over the moon.
Has anyone been in this situation who can offer a hand hold, or even share positive termination experiences?