Hey
I’m new here I wouldn’t normally do things like this but I’m a mess.
so I have 5 boys already 15-5 yrs old found out am 5+ weeks pregnant again. My husband wants me to abort this baby but I can’t bring myself to do it. I understand his reasoning I really do but if I talk to family or friends it’s either agreeing with him or tell me to tell him to suck it up.
so basically number 5 I birthed alone due to no support from any one as it was Boxing Day and families all doing own things. Didn’t bother me. But this time round I would do it alone again but he is saying that he doesn’t want to have another baby due to space (we live in a 4 bed 4 bathroom house and I have a office room which I would happily give up for storage for all babies things etc. he doesn’t wanna do sleepless nights irl happily do them with out a second thought. He has known from 16 years ago I’ve always wanted 6 I would have like 4 boys and 2 girls but I get can’t always get what we want in life. Hut I’m overly happy that they are all healthy happy and crazy in own ways. I’ve not asked of much from him other to just love the baby like he does the rest not asked him to change nappys bottles sleepless nights endless appointments and be in labour room again but he still wants me to abort I’m worried if I stick to my guns it will ruin us and if I don’t and I do abort I’m worried irl hate him and just end up pulling away. I’m very stuck on what to do
not asking for some one to give me the answers just looking to see if some one else has been in a similar position and what u choose to do.