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Anxious24 · 10/07/2025 16:23

I’m 40 I had an abortion in November as I thought I couldn’t cope life was ruined. Had severe depression. Worst thing I’ve ever done.
Will another baby help with the pain? I have 2 children just turned 2 and 4. I hate what I’ve done to them. I was on top of the world before this. That is what I was scared of losing. I am married. My husband wanted the baby

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MoreChocPls · 10/07/2025 20:30

Kindly, if you struggle with two little ones, having another would be seriously tough. I don’t think another baby is going to help- it won’t replace the one you lost and could make things worse. Your dh sounds like he need to recognise your depression and be more supportive. Your kids won’t know you had an abortion so they will be ok from that perspective. Suggest you see a doctor.

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Anxious24 · 12/07/2025 08:40

How would it be worse?

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