Unsure how to feel...

[Lolaloula]

I have taken 2 tests, 1 yesterday and then another today and they were positive.... not sure how I feel about it... I'll be honest that in my head I was trying... but now its happened I'm panicking.... can I really juggle everything... I feel like I'm always doing everything as it is...

I have a 4yr old daughter who has SEN and starts school in September so fairly busy with her as is...

I think I need to figure out how I feel before telling my partner... or is that bad?

You say you were trying, was it a mutual thing with your partner? Does he want a baby too? I think you should definitely discuss with him 👍 and if he is all for a second child then definitely raise the issue of workload!

Was he on board with ttc? You make it sound like you were while he wasn’t aware. If it’s his baby you should really talk to him asap. I’m not sure why you wouldn’t.